Explore the Reality!

I always ended up focusing on the negatives. I wonder, why does a human mind always grasp everything that is negative and why couldn't we just focus on something that is actually needed! The positives! Why can't we look on the positive side of something? Negative holds a lot more power than the positive. The negative destroys everything that took years for the positive to build. Human pyschology seems like a maze for me, with so much of complications. There are number of thoughts that go on in our mind but we can never resolve the reason or understand the goods behind it. All these years that passed, a lot of incidences took place, some good, some bad and some that didn't have any such effect on the life, but all this made me understand that we cannot judge a person based on how our mind or psychology works. Every person is a deserving person for what he/she expects based on how his/her psychology demands. But what when a person cannot stand on our expectations? Expectat