Explore the Reality!

Life is a maze where as much as you try to understand the way out, you keep on getting more and more puzzled. Did you come up with things in your life when you utterly regretted a certain situation or a certain phase? If yes, how did that make you feel? and does it do now? It is such a cruel gesture of yours to yourself to make you pass through a time period that shouldn't have ever happened. Regret comes in any form, and it is that extreme point of guilt when you cannot accept its existence and rather wish that it shouldn't have ever happened. Did you get over it? Does it feel like it will never be the same again? Yes, it does. It feels like its all ruined and there's no way out you can get through it. Life has all irreversible events, you can never go back in time and fix what had happened or make it any better. Things never get better with time, if I say so, I will be lying. The real fact is that you accept the things overtime and get habituated. You start worrying

I had been a kind person, not all my life but from the day I realised that being kind is the only way out to be happy inside out. I define kindness not what people do in charity, or when people donate money or when people donate clothes, accessories, etc,etc but the kindness that I'm referring to is something which lies within and something that rarely comes up to people. This kindness lies in every little gesture of a person, sometimes we lose it, that is when a person becomes arrogant. But being arrogant to someone is being kind to oneself, there's a reason why someone acts arrogantly to you. Every other way of the reaction that you get from people who are close to you or who may not be is a reflection of the type of gesture that you showed to them. It may not be sweet to accept every time, but this is where kindness comes, when you accept it with all your might and understand the side of other person. This kindness never reaches to the person on the other side of the pict

Life can never be the same again. Once you know the motives, once you know where the things are heading, life can never be the same again. People say to focus on the positives, to count on what matters and leave what doesn't, but what if a single negative proves to be more heavier than all the positives done? All the ideal rules set for having a cheerful and not so complex life are too tough to practically put in. Experiences play a role in our life that no other thing can! I have always wondered if there's any way out of the experiences that you never want to have a place for. Of course, some things teach you certain facts that you never want to learn, never want to hold on. We do not hold the power to lead our lives the way we want, sometimes we have to be a part of situation that we had never thought of or we never wanted to be in. From all the experiences that knowingly or unknowingly OR wantedly or unwantedly OR good or bad in my sense, I have learnt that people aroun