Explore the Reality!

I remember the times when I was in school, in 8th grade may be, and that's when I used to write all shitty stuff in my head on a paper whenever I had a free period. I also remember how I used to stare outside the window in those boring history lectures, and how I used to wonder about the rules of living life! I used to think how life would have been if I was in that era teacher was talking of. I was a very non-attentive kid all my life, I never took interest in what was being taught in the school unless and until I had the encounter of teachers giving me remarks for being non attentive and sleepy. I had always been a brilliant student whenever I took my studies seriously. There always was a time when I used to think of how I would look after 10 years, where I would stand when I'll be an adult. My life was and is full of these thoughts. Right from when I was a little kid, I had lived a life of fantasy. Thinking of me and my life out of the practical scenario. I was a day drea...

People often say that life has no meaning if there's nothing tough to deal with. Life is no fun, if it is easy, they say. I indeed agree with this. Life's definition in itself means the tough and good times. Life couldn't be resolved better than expressing it as a summation of all the good and bad things that happen to us. There's no person on this Earth who has not been through hardships, I bet! But, are there few of those moments, on a random day, at a random moment when you feel like everything in your life is a failure and there's just no end to the tough times? Do you feel that? These are the times when you feel bad about being yourself, when you feel there's nothing that can heal the pain inside you. There are these times in your life, it may or may not have a reason but its just there. You get the pain for being yourself. You blame yourself and you feel like you shouldn't be  the kind of person you are. This happens. These are those moments when y...

Did you encounter it? We always talk about and judge people for how they behave and what they are. Being at the second end of the story and cursing the storyline is such an easy and no costing job to do, right? But, did any person ever in this life attempt to see how things actually work? Didn't get that? We all are different beings and all of us possess different qualities. Likewise, every single person has his/her own thought process. We judge people and its simply because we consider what we think is right, not what others think!  Meeting people, talking to them, understanding them made me realise that there's not only one or two ends of the story but also an ambiguous side which will always be left unanswered. Elaborating this, first side stays with the doer, that one person who had his/her own set of reasons for being into the situation. The second side stays with that one person who is liable to judge, who sees the whole situation depending on his/her thought proc...

You still believe? Do you? I always end up asking this question, very often when I realise I failed again in expecting. I pretty well know everyone had been in a situation where they face their expectations being broken and crushed in a miserable way. It hurts, isn't it? Very bad? Well if any person asks me this same question, I'll always have an explanation ready for it. We live in a world where we are surrounded by people. I won't ever use the terminology "humans" for the people around us, because it depends on how they behave whether they are one amongst the people or a human. When it comes to expect, we expect from every person around us, ofcourse the intensity differs. Also the people expect from us. What matters is whether we understand the side of other person and are we good enough to be firm with it. I always say confidently that I understand others, quite a lot of times. But, where I fail is expressing it to them. But then I try to bring about the...

What do you want of yourself? Where do you see yourself in coming 10 or 15 years? What will you do when you have attained all that you have? Will you be happy then? Will you be contented? Is success everything that you want with your life? Is there anything else that you need to feel peace within? I come across these questions a lot of times. We spend whole of our lives proving our worth to the world, trying to show that we are no less, trying to be the other person. All of our time flies out of nowhere. The experiences that I've encountered tell me that there's no person and there's no thing that will make you feel perfectly flawlessly happy. Years pass, we come across so many people, and we try to know and understand each one of them. Sometimes, we judge too! But that is all a human can do. We try to mend a person, in accordance with what our will and comfort demands but it takes a long time to realise that it is not so easy unless the person on the other side happen...

Life is a maze where as much as you try to understand the way out, you keep on getting more and more puzzled. Did you come up with things in your life when you utterly regretted a certain situation or a certain phase? If yes, how did that make you feel? and does it do now? It is such a cruel gesture of yours to yourself to make you pass through a time period that shouldn't have ever happened. Regret comes in any form, and it is that extreme point of guilt when you cannot accept its existence and rather wish that it shouldn't have ever happened. Did you get over it? Does it feel like it will never be the same again? Yes, it does. It feels like its all ruined and there's no way out you can get through it. Life has all irreversible events, you can never go back in time and fix what had happened or make it any better. Things never get better with time, if I say so, I will be lying. The real fact is that you accept the things overtime and get habituated. You start worrying ...

I had been a kind person, not all my life but from the day I realised that being kind is the only way out to be happy inside out. I define kindness not what people do in charity, or when people donate money or when people donate clothes, accessories, etc,etc but the kindness that I'm referring to is something which lies within and something that rarely comes up to people. This kindness lies in every little gesture of a person, sometimes we lose it, that is when a person becomes arrogant. But being arrogant to someone is being kind to oneself, there's a reason why someone acts arrogantly to you. Every other way of the reaction that you get from people who are close to you or who may not be is a reflection of the type of gesture that you showed to them. It may not be sweet to accept every time, but this is where kindness comes, when you accept it with all your might and understand the side of other person. This kindness never reaches to the person on the other side of the pict...

Life can never be the same again. Once you know the motives, once you know where the things are heading, life can never be the same again. People say to focus on the positives, to count on what matters and leave what doesn't, but what if a single negative proves to be more heavier than all the positives done? All the ideal rules set for having a cheerful and not so complex life are too tough to practically put in. Experiences play a role in our life that no other thing can! I have always wondered if there's any way out of the experiences that you never want to have a place for. Of course, some things teach you certain facts that you never want to learn, never want to hold on. We do not hold the power to lead our lives the way we want, sometimes we have to be a part of situation that we had never thought of or we never wanted to be in. From all the experiences that knowingly or unknowingly OR wantedly or unwantedly OR good or bad in my sense, I have learnt that people aroun...