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Life is a maze where as much as you try to understand the way out, you keep on getting more and more puzzled. Did you come up with things in your life when you utterly regretted a certain situation or a certain phase? If yes, how did that make you feel? and does it do now? It is such a cruel gesture of yours to yourself to make you pass through a time period that shouldn't have ever happened. Regret comes in any form, and it is that extreme point of guilt when you cannot accept its existence and rather wish that it shouldn't have ever happened. Did you get over it? Does it feel like it will never be the same again? Yes, it does. It feels like its all ruined and there's no way out you can get through it. Life has all irreversible events, you can never go back in time and fix what had happened or make it any better. Things never get better with time, if I say so, I will be lying. The real fact is that you accept the things overtime and get habituated. You start worrying ...

I had been a kind person, not all my life but from the day I realised that being kind is the only way out to be happy inside out. I define kindness not what people do in charity, or when people donate money or when people donate clothes, accessories, etc,etc but the kindness that I'm referring to is something which lies within and something that rarely comes up to people. This kindness lies in every little gesture of a person, sometimes we lose it, that is when a person becomes arrogant. But being arrogant to someone is being kind to oneself, there's a reason why someone acts arrogantly to you. Every other way of the reaction that you get from people who are close to you or who may not be is a reflection of the type of gesture that you showed to them. It may not be sweet to accept every time, but this is where kindness comes, when you accept it with all your might and understand the side of other person. This kindness never reaches to the person on the other side of the pict...

Life can never be the same again. Once you know the motives, once you know where the things are heading, life can never be the same again. People say to focus on the positives, to count on what matters and leave what doesn't, but what if a single negative proves to be more heavier than all the positives done? All the ideal rules set for having a cheerful and not so complex life are too tough to practically put in. Experiences play a role in our life that no other thing can! I have always wondered if there's any way out of the experiences that you never want to have a place for. Of course, some things teach you certain facts that you never want to learn, never want to hold on. We do not hold the power to lead our lives the way we want, sometimes we have to be a part of situation that we had never thought of or we never wanted to be in. From all the experiences that knowingly or unknowingly OR wantedly or unwantedly OR good or bad in my sense, I have learnt that people aroun...

I always ended up focusing on the negatives. I wonder, why does a human mind always grasp everything that is negative and why couldn't we just focus on something that is actually needed! The positives! Why can't we look on the positive side of something? Negative holds a lot more power than the positive. The negative destroys everything that took years for the positive to build. Human pyschology seems like a maze for me, with so much of complications. There are number of thoughts that go on in our mind but we can never resolve the reason or understand the goods behind it. All these years that passed, a lot of incidences took place, some good, some bad and some that didn't have any such effect on the life, but all this made me understand that we cannot judge a person based on how our mind or psychology works. Every person is a deserving person for what he/she expects based on how his/her psychology demands. But what when a person cannot stand on our expectations? Expectat...

Do you remember the times when you used to laugh out loud? The times when worries had no place in the mind, the only friends we had were our parents, when waking up felt so enthusiastic and when each day was another start for a full new adventure! Do you remember it? Life had a wonderful meaning then, when there was no place for any reason to be upset about, when the world was unseen, when the people were unnoticed, when the intentions were hidden and when the cruelty didn't exist. Growing up feels like a burden. Sometimes I wonder, why did I ever grow up into an adult. Why can't I be the same little child for whom the biggest ever burden was to complete her homework. Why did I ever start thinking and understanding? May be, the only way to deal with the cruel world is to be one of them! Survival needs defeat of the other one. And defeating the other is to hurt them, to make them feel bad, and I don't want to do it. But then, I will have to lose, and it will be disappoi...

Everything seemed worth it, every pain, every effort, every thought, every second spent under depression, every single thing that was done. All the surprises planned, all the hard work to bring happiness, when being selfless felt so so good. Down the lane, when everything's remembered, a smile comes along, being satisfied that always good was done, everything was taken positively and everything was done in an attempt to make it last forever. But, what if it didn't last, even after doing all that could possibly be done, what if eventually nothing was left to count? People say and believe to live in the present, not to think about what had happened and what will happen. But living a life that has no future to think of, living a life that has no aim and ambition. being in a relationship that has no goal to reach or encounter, is this why we start with an association? Certainly a NO. Why doesn't it keep making sense for like forever? When we start it with a hope, why can...

Then I spent years wondering why people act so selfish? There's no favor in being it of course, being mean to other people around, does it give a sense of happiness? All these years of growing up into a mature person, I experienced things to prove the fact that an elderly person is more wise. A person who had been through all the even and odds is someone who takes the decision quite well. WE GROW AND PEOPLE CHANGE. Yes people change and they change in a very unexpected way. As we grow, we experience the mean motto of people, and when we do, it pinches somewhere. Do people really change or they were the same and we mistook to assume it something else? May be the answers to these questions are just not easy to find out, or may be the people we meet all these years throughout our lives are just not enough to make us experience the truth! Being a child, every other person appears beautiful and kind to us, every person who offers us a chocolate becomes the best for us. What if ...

And then suddenly I woke up in mid of the night, the feeling was not good. Heart beating fast, no peace to feel around. Everything was quiet, no sound, but I was in chaos. No explanation to this. When there's nothing as such depressing around you, but there's something still deficient? Everything's just going fine.Yes, Fine! And fine seems enough, isn't it? Being satisfied just in the ordinary. Ordinary is just being in the comfort zone but it for sure never means to be contented. An average human lives for around 75-80 years, and being just fine all these years is simply not what I want to do with my life. Happiness is what matters, not with others, not because of others, but because of me! If I am to live this life, I want to live it to the fullest. Not just live but make my life a mark for others. I want to fail, and I want it to be a number of times because I want my success to be much louder than any of my failures. I want to stay unsatisfied with my success,...

Did you ever realize what it means to be important in own's vision?  Life had been a really cruel deal to make, right? Having experienced the darker face of life, I prefer not being a mature person. That would make life so much easier, when you start looking at it the way its shown, the way people explain it to you. Being important in own's vision, is it being selfish? Giving importance to oneself is not being it. I make up the prior most position in my life, does this sound selfish? Well, yes, it can be being self-centered! Because understanding what my need is and giving importance to my wishes and my peace is the most beautiful deed that I can do to myself. Thinking about the happiness of others, about what they need, about what will make them happy and comfortable is something that everyone should think of, but only when it gives a little pinch of happiness to oneself too. I don't need a bunch of reasons to last long enough for me to stay happy forever, but I want a ...

The night’s gone and the sun will rise again, what’s lost will again someday stand right in front of you, giving you a choice to hold on or to give up! But then, the life will make you realize, it no longer keeps importance. The time is gone when it did, but now there’s much more to acquire, much better to achieve.The life had started smiling back right to you, for you had been a strong warrior, you had been through the toughest storms. ‘Cause, at one point of time, life makes you realize your worth! 

LIFE!! How can LIFE exactly be defined as? A time period from birth to death? Is that all what we call as LIFE?? Or is it more than just waking up and going back to sleep? Life isn't a designer dress, something that looks perfectly mesmerizing. Nothing is predestined. Nothing lasts forever. Neither the good moments nor the bad ones. How we live is what we acquire from our experiences. Nothing has got a reason for why it happens. We make a reason for everything. Every little thing that happens to us is a result of how we behave in a certain moment of time. But, Life is never to regret because every single person out there is in an attempt of saving himself. There's much more to life than what we assume it as. Life is about living! Living all the good moments that we will cherish throughout our being. Life is about all the experiences that we will seek and applying it in every aspect of our behaviour. Life is about dreams that we see for ourselves and running after them. Li...